A social discovery platform (like Ghana’s Sweeedy.com) is
simply a modern instrument God can use to join two single Christians together. It
is a modern instrument because during the biblical times such platforms for
singles did not exist in the same form as it is presently. A journey through
the Holy Bible revealed that families assisted their young men and women to meet
and become engaged. Connecting a prospective couple was usually a family
affair. In fact, the Holy Bible does not indicate the process Christians should
use in searching for potential soul partners, or whichever method Christians
should “date” or court”. Therefore, what can be wrong with a sister/brother/friend/neighbour
that met his/her spouse online and is enjoying a healthy, happy marriage?
Here are 6 helpful advices single Christians need to
undertake when finding partners online, through Sweeedy.com.
- Single Christians must spend extra time getting to know
each other by talking on the phone, learning about their past,
interest, passion and etc. It is simply not OK to find them on social
media platforms but go the extra mile to Google the name of the new person
and request answers to your all questions about the person. There is a lot of info you can find out about someone simply
by spending the extra time to learn before taking the next step.
- When finding a
partner online via Ghana’s sweeedy.com app, ask about their church/ministry, how they serve, who their pastor
is, location and size, etc. This activity helps you to physically
verify who they are in the Lord. If they are mature Christians, they are
going to be involved in their church and they may be photo evidence on
their social media page (Facebook, instagram, twitter etc) showing them
serving. A single Christian can take it a step further by privately
finding or asking for church leaders/pastors contact information to
discover more about the online person.
- God fearing Christians must to be honest. If you are a
single lady, you are required to be honest with any man you are talking
too by letting him know you are also talking to several other men online
and that you are not dating anyone yet. Being honest requires a single
Christian lady to communicate in a clear and simple language letting him
know that when you do take a decision to date someone else, you will prompt
him.
- Singles should as soon as possible meet in-person at a
public area and inform friends/family about the meeting. God
fearing singles should always view online dating platform like Sweeedy.com
as an instrument God can use to connect two singles together. If one was
to search the Internet for success stories, one would find hundreds of
thousands of them. Common to all the success stories is transitioning from
the online world to the "real world" as soon as they could. For
this reason, it is wise for God fearing singles to arrange to meet in
person sooner rather than later. This gives each other an opportunity to
examine each other in the “real world”. It is very vital for singles to
examine how the other partner treats others, handles everyday frustrations
and etc. This series of in-person meetings helps singles make wise
decisions on whether to continue exploring or not.
By Felix Asmah
Comments
Post a Comment